The development of our children’s social and emotional well-being is an intrinsic part of school life at St Michael’s. We believe if children can learn to be calm under pressure at a young age, then they stand in good stead for adult life. By learning techniques to recognise their strengths and manage their emotional journey through life we can enable our children to be positive about themselves, emotionally resilient and build skills and tools for life.
At St Michael’s we have a package of support to enable our children to: develop self- confidence, increase emotional literacy, build emotional resilience, provide tools to cope with stress and anxiety; recognise, name and deal with feelings in a positive way and encourage children to feel positive about themselves.
The Hope Project
“Hope” is a school based emotional support project which helps children and their families. The project offers early intervention for emotional need and promotes a whole school approach for emotional health & wellbeing. A child or young person may need someone to talk to about emotional, behavioural or social difficulties. Hope aims to provide this support and the space for listening and talking to a child/young person.
The problems that HOPE can help with include:
• Any aspect of family life that may be affecting your child’s emotional wellbeing
• School refusal
• Bullying
• Behaviour
• Anxiety
• Sadness
• Low self-esteem
• Illness
• Bereavement
Who helps to provide the service?
At St. Michael’s there is a team who can support your child. It includes the Head Teacher, the Wellbeing Lead, the Special Educational Needs Co-ordinator (SENCo) and the Emotional Wellbeing/SEN TA. There will be other services that link with Hope such as Educational Psychology, School Nurse, Local Support Team (LST) and Child and Adolescent Mental Health Service (CAMHS) and more who may be able to offer advice and support.
Support offered includes:
Lunchtime drop in self-referral
Children have the opportunity to drop into The Hub one lunchtime in the week with any worries or issues that they want to talk about. The children will be supported and enabled to talk through solutions or find techniques to help them. If required, further support will be offered on a 1:1 basis.
Afternoon Sessions
Afternoon sessions take place in The Hub. Children may attend sessions in small groups or 1:1 sessions for specific reasons, for example (complimenting those listed under the Hope project):
• School refusal
• Bullying
• Behaviour
• Anxiety
• Sadness
• Low self-esteem
• Illness
• Bereavement
• Friendship difficulties – keeping/making friends
• Difficulty recognising and dealing with emotions
• Quiet, shy, withdrawn
• Find it hard to listen to others or join in
• Disruptive towards others
• Find it hard to accept losing a game
• Find it hard to share and take turns
• Find it a bit difficult to settle into class
• Poor relationships with adults in school
• Family illness or break-up
The group and 1:1 sessions will help to boost confidence and self-esteem and provide children with the extra help sometimes needed to improve social skills, emotional resilience, self-esteem and independence to help them through life inside and outside school.
Talk and Chill Lunchtime club
Our lovely lunchtime group allows children to eat lunch together and talk about any issues they are having. We then have a chance to chill out and relax session with our Relax Kids Coach. The sessions teach children relaxation techniques and tools to help them cope with stress and anxiety whilst building their confidence and self-esteem. Learning relaxation from a young age helps children manage their stress, stay in control of their emotions, and focussed. The lunchtime chill session includes stretching, breathing techniques, massage, positive affirmations and visualisation to help the children relax. The club runs on a half term basis with a maximum of 10 children.
Friendship Club
Mrs Childs (Teaching Assistant) runs a friendship club once a week. To help develop friendships between children.
Buddy Benches
We use multi- coloured buddy benches to help the children who may be feeling lonely and sad to be identified by their peers or a member of the teaching or support staff.
Sibling Support
Sibling support is offered during periods of transitions or to help support your child’s wellbeing.
PSHE curriculum
The PSHE curriculum at St Michael’s is designed to support the wellbeing of all child so that they can grow into confident, happy individuals with a love of learning. Where their curiosity, independence and self-belief are encouraged and valued by all. Please click on the link for the PSHE policy https://stmichaelsstone.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/PSHE-Policy-St-Michaels-2021.pdf
Bullying
At St Michael’s everyone is expected to act with courtesy, respect and consideration to other people at all times. We do not accept or tolerate bullying in any of its forms, so all incidents will be taken seriously and dealt with appropriately at the earliest opportunity. All children are specifically taught that if they are a victim of bullying, or are aware of someone else being bullied, they should speak to someone they trust that can make sure that the bullying is dealt with appropriately.
Please find the link to the St Michael’s Bullying Policy - https://stmichaelsstone.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Anti-bullying-policy.pdf
We provide many opportunities to discuss and learn about bullying. Some of which include:
•Referring to our Behaviour Policy https://stmichaelsstone.org.uk/behaviour-policy-st-michaels-2021/
• Signing a behaviour contract
• Promoting positive images of difference and diversity
• Attendance at Friendship Club/ Nurture provision for victims or bullies
• Using appropriate resources from organisations and the internet (e.g. www.thinkuknow.co.uk)
• Taking part in Anti-Bullying Weeks activities as organised by the AntiBullying Alliance
• Reading stories about bullying or having them read to a class or assembly
• Having discussions about bullying and why it maters
• Using our PSHE curriculum to learn about this throughout the curriculum
• Messages are reinforced throughout the year as part of the PSHE curriculum
• Use of support groups (in school)
• Focus on bullying in assemblies
• Promoting a “TELL, TELL, TELL” ethos
• Teaching the children the importance of not being a bystander in situations that may be bullying Measures to prevent Bullying are:
• To include issues related to bullying in the curriculum and assemblies with themes such as friendship, kindness, trust and love.
• To encourage those pupils who might feel intimidated to be assertive and know where to go for help or to whom to report to.
• To teach children how to resolve conflict constructively and creatively
• To give praise and recognition to those who are kind, helpful and caring.
Online bullying
• Promoting a culture where children are willing to report incidents of bullying.
• Using the curriculum to raise children’s awareness of bullying and to provide opportunities to discuss issues related to bullying and by standing.
• Using circle time, as appropriate, in order to raise self-esteem and mutual respect and develop a forum where friendship problems can be discussed.
• The use of friendship groups and nurture as appropriate to support the victim and/or the perpetrator.
• Teaching the children that anyone who knows that bullying is happening is expected to tell a member of staff.
• Identifying the underlying reasons for the bullying and supporting both the victim and the perpetrator, who may both need social, emotional or behavioural support All cases of bullying are taken seriously and senior members of staff will investigate the matter fully. If evidence of bullying is found, senior leaders and class teachers will work together to support all the children involved.
We are continuing to develop our well-being support to enable the inclusion of our children and their families. For further information on our well-being service please contact:
Angela Whitney (Deputy Head & Wellbeing Lead) a.whitney@st-michaels-stone.staffs.sch.uk
Denise Fritz (Emotional Wellbeing/SEN Learning Support Assistant) d.fritz@st-michaels-stone.staff.sch.uk